Sujata Datta Making FamilyMy best friend, my cousin, though more like a sister. Back in Franklin Square in Boston, we practically lived together.
We’d play the stair game, warily avoiding the twelfth floor where the mean old “Popeye guy” snored. And we’d play Pretty Pretty Princess, which I would always lose. “You cheated!” I would accuse. But once we reconciled, we’d go to the playground downstairs where we learned to ride bikes, and decided there was oil from China somewhere… (Under the sandbox.)
Almond Roca was like ambrosia. During a road trip the whole can would disappear. We were “chocolate monsters” destined for Sesame Street it appeared. Chuckie Cheese was our oxygen, though I admit I was a little scared. But now instead of Helen and Jasper, we go see Johnny Depp and Katherine Heigl with soda, popcorn, nachos, candy and ice cream to share.
Or we drive to Rockingham mall, stopping at Pip’s and the dollar shop on the way. We typically spend more money there than at the mall anyways.
Summer entertainment consists of throwing egg-like water balloons. Half of them breaking before they fly. And going on the Slip n’ Slide like buffoons… (We’re definitely getting too big for it.)
We play pitthu or horse, kickball and football of course. Sleepovers every weekend, talking really late at night. Or laughing so hard our moms get annoyed, and tell us laundry is something we should enjoy. And that we should definitely vacuum the war zone we call our room.
Apparently, we’ll soon look like fat cows considering we don’t eat our vegetables. So we go to the YMCA… Then stuff our mouths at Panera bread, still in our exercise clothes, looking like hobos that have never been fed.
We blast music in the car while driving to Bertucci’s or Taco Bell. Or blare music while putting on makeup and getting dressed for a party. Since we run on Indian time, we get really stressed.
Even in public where people tend to stare, we love to dance. Why not take a chance?
I love my cousin for several reasons. She’s my role model, and my accomplice in the ridiculous things we do. My dance partner everywhere, and my traveling companion too. To Quebec, Orlando, Killington, L.A. and other places like Niagara Falls… (Three times.)
Now here’s a little secret, that I haven’t told you yet; she’s not really my cousin.
But, “When you come to a country with no family around, you better make family with the friends you found.” At least, that’s what my mom says.
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